Destiny Addresses False Allegations Towards MrGirl

MrGirl adjusting his pants mid-conversation with Chaeiry

On October 16, 2022, Destiny hosted a panel discussion with several orbiters to address drama surrounding Chaeiry's accusation that MrGirl had exposed himself to her during a conversation. While Chaiery eventually admitted to misinterpreting MrGirl adjusting his pants as "flashing" her, the conversation became quite heated as Lav came to MrGirl's defense to harangue Chaiery.

The discussion

Chaeiry, thinking MrGirl had intentionally lifted his shirt to flash his stomach/lower body(and pubes), tweeted out a #metoo style tweet alongside Stardust with regards to the incident. Seeing the backlash she received following her accusations, Chaiery decided to speak with Destiny in hopes of receiving clarification as to where she messed up. After some discussion(and further questioning by Chaeiry), Destiny concludes that assuming any maliciousness from MrGirl during this incident would be unreasonable.

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Later on, Dan joins the call followed by Lav, Aba, and Zherka. Lav brags about "being right" with regards to Chaeiry's character, mentioning her toxicity and alleged mental illness, and proceeds to defend MrGirl. Destiny takes issue with the harshness of Lav's criticisms, and the two discuss for some time. Throughout the conversation, Lav derides Chaiery's character, insults her, and accuses her of betraying MrGirl's friendship and trust. The conversation goes on for around twenty minutes before the panel decides to discuss sex work with Lav. Noticing a lull in the discussion, Ahrelevant joins the call to debate with Lav about the ethicacy of online pornograophy, and her heavy-handedness during debates. This conversation quickly gets derailed as Darius enters the call to shout at Lav.

The conversation becomes even more personal when Aba expresses his disdain for Lav, calling her a version of Sneako with less charisma. He goes on to point to Lav's ability to take strong moral stances on topics she has no prior knowledge on. Lav takes issue with this and the two discuss for some time. Shortly after this conversation, Lav alludes to a "nuke" on Hasan. Destiny stops her from dropping the nuke, stating she will end her whole career over this and that the allegations are not strong enough. Eventually Chaeiry joins the call to confront Lav, and the two argue for some time. MrGirl enters the call shortly after Chaeiry, and recreates the pose that was clipped and started the initial drama. The setup he recreates the pose in has much better lighting, and shows that only his abdomen and love handles are visible(no pubes to be seen).

Chaeiry and MrGirl debate for some time. Eventually, Chaeiry agrees that MrGirl's lower back, and not his butt, was shown. MrGirl, citing himself as being in survival mode, qualifies his defense by stating one should "believe all women" in these cases and acknowledges that Chaeiry may have felt uncomfortable. Eventually, the conversation shifts focus back to Lav(after she accuses Chaiery of lying) and Destiny is forced to explain to her what a lie is. While in the middle of defining what a lie is, Lav interrupts Destiny, to which Destiny responds by calling Lav a "dumb bitch". Several more people interrupt Destiny, and he threatens to ban the entire panel. Destiny snaps once more, saying this whole situation is a nothing burger that nobody will remember. Destiny further argues that the only one who deserves to be angry is MrGirl, who should probably be going much harder on Chaeiry as a result of her actions. MrGirl eventually leaves, and the panel members then turn their attention to Lav and criticize her for treating Chaiery poorly during the discussion. Lav and Chaiery continue to argue whether Chaiery lied, and in the end, Lav angrily exits the call.

Debate Highlights

1:07 Destiny and Chaeiry discuss the allegation Chaeiry levied against MrGirl. Chaeiry shows Destiny the clip wherein she claims MrGirl "flashed his pubes". After watching the clip, Destiny isn't sure what Chaeiry expects him to conclude and doubts that MrGirl intentionally harassed her based on the footage. After some further discussion(and some rather aggressive questioning by Chaeiry), Destiny concludes that to assume any maliciousness form MrGirl in this instance would be unreasonable. 15:12 The video skips to later in the day when Dan Joins the call, and Destiny explains the drama. 17:34 The video skips to later in the day when Lav joins the call alongside Aba and Zherka. Lav brags about being correct about Chaiery's character. Destiny takes issue with this accusation and the two discuss. 22:01 Lav claims MrGirl has a "wound", and is very cautious around women. Destiny responds that MrGirl is not, and points to conversations where he makes women quite uncomfortable. Lav then accuses Chaiery of lying for attention. 32:25 The panel discusses sex work, Lav's unban from MrGirl's discord, and race. 37:39 Ahrelevant joins the call to debate with Lav about the ethicacy of online pornograophy. Lav responds she does not have a position worked out yet and is still developing one. Ahrelevant then asks why Lav takes such a heavy handed approach when criticizing people during these debates. 46:18 Lav discusses a sextoy review she will offer on her Patreon as educational content for women. Ahrelevant acknowledges this, but points to other lewd images she offers on her Patreon and Twitter that are not explicitly educational. Lav responds that she believes those images are neutral, and she receives sexaul gratificaiton from uploading them. 51:43 Darius joins the call and screams at Lav for a few minutes. 54:58 Aba speaks on his disdain for Lav. He describes Lav as a version of Sneako with less charisma. Lav takes issue with this, and she debates Abaa and Ahrel for some time. 1:13:21 Lav alludes to a Hasan "nuke" she wishes to drop. Destiny stops her before she can, stating she will end her whole career over this and that the allegations are not strong enough. 1:14:32 Chaeiry joins the call. She states Lav is as informed on her friendship with MrGirl as she is on the sex industry. The two debate for some time over the allegations. 1:22:09 MrGirl joins the call, and recreates the pose that was clipped. The setup he recreates the pose in has much better lighting, and shows that only his abdomen and love handles are visible. Chaeiry and MrGirl debate for some time. MrGirl, citing himself as being in survival mode, qualifies his defense by stating one should "believe all women" in these cases and acknowledges that Chaeiry may have felt uncomfortable. 1:38:56 Lav questions why none of the men in the call are confronting a women making false allegations. To which Destiny responds that Lav is a MrGirl simp, and hates Chaiery. 2:05:49 Destiny explains to Lav what a lie is, and calls Lav a dumb bitch when she interrupts him. Several more people interrupt Destiny, and he threatens to ban the entire panel. 2:09:58 Destiny says Chaeiry can make as many twitlongers as she wants about himself, nothing will come of it. He calls this whole situation a "nothing-burger" and says nobody will remember it. 2:16:54 MrGirl says this will be his final public appearance with Chaiery, and will no longer appear on streams with her again. He leaves shortly after stating this. 2:27:06 After several members on the panel point to Lav's poor treatment of CHaiery during the discussion(and many insults are thrown at Chaiery by Lav) she rage quits the panel.