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* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=142 2:21] October 20, 2023 Destiny and Melina get into a fight(while in Las Vegas) because Tim(memetix) was saying you can't raise children in a poly relationship, or with an American. The fight heats up, and she asks him if he's on his meds and implies that could be the cause of his poor mood.
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=142 2:21] October 20, 2023 Destiny and Melina get into a fight(while in Las Vegas) because Tim(memetix) was saying you can't raise children in a poly relationship, or with an American. The fight heats up, and she asks him if he's on his meds and implies that could be the cause of his poor mood.
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=993 16:33] December 7, 2023 Destiny and Melina have a conversation which ended horribly. Destiny wanted her to be gone with all her shit by the the time he got home on December 9th. Later that night, Destiny had a short conversation with her in dms(Destiny admits he is fairly irate at this point, and the messages he sent could be perceived as "unhinged"). Melina's responses were described as loving yet cold and detached, and fairly logical. Destiny noted that she was denying things she had previously confessed to doing. Unable to sleep, Destiny started typing things about their relationship in the DGG chat that he later regretted. Destiny has a 15-page manifesto ready to go at this point. That day, Destiny appears as a guest on two shows, Jubilee and the Whatever podcast. Destiny and Melina are seperated for two days at this point, and he has solicited much feedback from many mutuals regarding their interaction. After these conversations, Destiny sends an apologetic message to Melina for his seemingly unhinged behavior, and messages in DGG chat(Destiny was blocked on all socials at this point so he sent it through a mutual).  
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=993 16:33] December 7, 2023 Destiny and Melina have a conversation which ended horribly. Destiny wanted her to be gone with all her shit by the the time he got home on December 9th. Later that night, Destiny had a short conversation with her in dms(Destiny admits he is fairly irate at this point, and the messages he sent could be perceived as "unhinged"). Melina's responses were described as loving yet cold and detached, and fairly logical. Destiny noted that she was denying things she had previously confessed to doing. Unable to sleep, Destiny started typing things about their relationship in the DGG chat that he later regretted. Destiny has a 15-page manifesto ready to go at this point. That day, Destiny appears as a guest on two shows, Jubilee and the Whatever podcast. Destiny and Melina are seperated for two days at this point, and he has solicited much feedback from many mutuals regarding their interaction. After these conversations, Destiny sends an apologetic message to Melina for his seemingly unhinged behavior, and messages in DGG chat(Destiny was blocked on all socials at this point so he sent it through a mutual).  
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1146 19:06] December 8, 2023 Destiny has a three hour conversation with his therapist, Stacy, regarding their relationship and his difficulty in comprehending some of Melina's behavior. Stacy recommends that Destiny aim for a certain outcome, instead of fucking everything up and doing x outcome. Later that day, Destiny has a two hour conversation with a friend.  
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1146 19:06] December 8, 2023 On the day of their therapy session, Destiny withdrew his money from their joint bank account, believing that the discussion would not be fruitful and "seeing the writing on the wall". Afterward, Destiny had a three-hour discussion with his therapist, Stacy, about their relationship and his struggles to understand some of Melina's behaviors. Stacy advised Destiny to focus on achieving a specific outcome, warning against actions that could lead to a less desirable result. Following the therapy, he managed to get Melina to sign a postnuptial agreement. Later that day, Destiny spent two hours talking with a friend about the situation.
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1208 20:08] December 11, 2023 Destiny does the "cuck" stream, wherein he apologizes for his unhinged behavior, leaking details regarding his relationship in dgg, and leaves the door open for Melina's return.<ref>Destiny Addresses His Divorce Rumor. (December 11, 2023). www.youtube.com. Retrieved December 20, 2023, from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ1whR2pn2Y </ref>   
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1208 20:08] December 11, 2023 Destiny does the "cuck" stream, wherein he apologizes for his unhinged behavior, leaking details regarding his relationship in dgg, and leaves the door open for Melina's return.<ref>Destiny Addresses His Divorce Rumor. (December 11, 2023). www.youtube.com. Retrieved December 20, 2023, from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ1whR2pn2Y </ref>   
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1232 20:32] December 12, 2023 Destiny notices a few passive aggressive tweets from Melina(which he viewed through dummy social media accounts). Destiny has his birthday party and notably did not receive a happy birthday form Melina :( . Destiny claims he is "chilling" at this point, and is happy where things are left.
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1232 20:32] December 12, 2023 Destiny notices a few passive aggressive tweets from Melina(which he viewed through dummy social media accounts). Destiny has his birthday party and notably did not receive a happy birthday form Melina :( . Destiny claims he is "chilling" at this point, and is happy where things are left.
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1301 21:41] December 13, 2023 people start messaging Destiny about things Melina has been saying. Most of the mutual friends allegedly believe Melina, despite her tendency to not divulge the full story of any fight they may have.<ref>[https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=224 Melina has been talking to mutuals behind the scenes]</ref> Destiny believes Melina will never leak anything, because she knows everything about this makes her look like a "satanic demon"<ref>[https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=743 Melina will never leak anything]</ref>.  Notable messages include "I'm so glad I got out of that, I never want to go back to this horrible person, I realized how much of an abuser he is... I can't believe he lied and tried to make everybody sympathetic for him...". Destiny is taken aback by these messages, as they were in response to his "cuck-stream". Destiny begins to retrofit actions melina did in the past, and everything starts to make sense. Destiny says fuck everyone who made him walk back his initial assessment of things.  Upon seeing the aforementioned messages from Melina regarding their relationship, Destiny rents an attorney, got the divorce papers, printed them up, sent them to melina to sign by monday. The papers were signed, notarized, and the court accepted everything.  
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1301 21:41] December 13, 2023 people start messaging Destiny about things Melina has been saying. Most of the mutual friends allegedly believe Melina, despite her tendency to not divulge the full story of any fight they may have.<ref>[https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=224 Melina has been talking to mutuals behind the scenes]</ref> Destiny believes Melina will never leak anything, because she knows everything about this makes her look like a "satanic demon"<ref>[https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=743 Melina will never leak anything]</ref>.  Notable messages include "I'm so glad I got out of that, I never want to go back to this horrible person, I realized how much of an abuser he is... I can't believe he lied and tried to make everybody sympathetic for him...". Destiny is taken aback by these messages, as they were in response to his "cuck-stream". Destiny begins to retrofit actions melina did in the past, and everything starts to make sense. Destiny says fuck everyone who made him walk back his initial assessment of things.  Upon seeing the aforementioned messages from Melina regarding their relationship, Destiny rents an attorney, got the divorce papers, printed them up, sent them to melina to sign by monday. The papers were signed, notarized, and the court accepted everything.  
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1471 24:31] December 19, 2023 Melina reaches out to Destiny for the first time in twelve days(through a mutual). She states Destiny owes her money for her apartment in Sweden. Destiny suggest that Memtix get a job to pay off the amount due. The two have a forty minute call later that day, which begins with Melina asking Destiny "I just want to know where you're at"(with regards to the apartment). During their conversation, Destiny compared himself to Neo, claiming he could detect each lie and pivot Melina made in real time. He challenged every assertion Melina presented, consistently asking for logs or evidence to back her claims, which she was unable to provide. Melina notably calls Destiny an emotionally stunted child that surrounds himself with yes-men during the call.
* [https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1471 24:31] December 19, 2023 Melina reaches out to Destiny for the first time in twelve days(through a mutual). She states Destiny owes her money for her apartment in Sweden. Destiny suggest that Memtix get a job to pay off the amount due. The two have a forty minute call later that day, which begins with Melina asking Destiny "I just want to know where you're at"(with regards to the apartment). During their conversation, Destiny compared himself to Neo, claiming he could detect each lie and pivot Melina made in real time. He challenged every assertion Melina presented, consistently asking for logs or evidence to back her claims, which she was unable to provide. Melina notably calls Destiny an emotionally stunted child that surrounds himself with yes-men during the call.
==== Financial fallout of divorce ====
Destiny stated that there is no noticeable financial burden on his end as a result of the divorce. He goes on to say that the two have no joint assets, no kids, and live in Florida(the state has disfavorable laws for short-term marriages), and even if she wanted to fight she would likely receive nothing.<ref>[https://youtu.be/4FZK1BdFAmE?t=1912 Destiny addresses the financial fallout of the divorce]</ref>


==== Memetix chat logs during the stream ====
==== Memetix chat logs during the stream ====

Revision as of 17:36, 20 December 2023

Melina Goransson

Melina Goransson (born August 17th, 1998[1]) is a lifestyle streamer. She is well known for her Swedish Rock Washing, a ritual in which she will wait until Destiny goes live to charm DGG by smashing and cleaning all rocks collected during her daily jog. She had multiple emotes in DGG Chat, . Melina also had exclusive access to the emote and a Mel variant of the dggL emote.

Tax Issues

On the 24th of August, 2023, Destiny revealed that Melina had had her passport seized and is potentially facing indictment in Sweden for issues related to tax payments. As of October 13th, she has been given her passport back and, at least according to Destiny, is likely to be cleared of all suspicion soon[2].

Divorce

On the 6th and 7th of December, 2023 Destiny removed and blocked Melina on his social media[3], said in chat that he "is out" and that she needs to pack up her belongings before he gets back to Miami on the 9th of December.[4]

December 19th Stream

On December 19th, 2023 Destiny announced in DGG chat that he would be going into detail regarding the circumstances of their divorce.[5] Destiny was prompted to do this seemingly after finding out Melina and Memetix had said on stream that Destiny had been lying about things he said in chat on December 7th. Destiny's main goal with this discussion was to fight a few widespread impressions that irk him[6]:

  1. He is a horrible abusive one-sided terrible person that Melina escaped.
  2. He is unsure how many people have heard "insane" things about him behind the scenes as a result of Melina providing her one-sided perspective.
  3. He is not happy with the things Memetix and Melina accusing him of lying about the circumstances of their divorce and relationship. Destiny then points out that his claims are easily backed up by logs, and that it would be incredibly stupid of him to lie.
  4. He wants to give a very broad accounting of the things that happened.

Shortly after announcing his intentions in DGG chat, Destiny streamed for two hours and divulged much more information regarding the circumstances of the divorce.[7]. At the beginning of the stream, Destiny noted that at least five mutual friends had reached out to him, implying that he had been untruthful about many things and had been abusive towards Melina. He then provided a timeline of events since December 7th leading up to their divorce. He talked about Melina's tendency to exaggerate and emotionally rewrite the history of their interactions, and her practice of sharing personal details of their relationship with outsiders, which he likened to creating '50 Bob7s'. He expressed his frustration with people weaponizing their emotions against him and friends who try to find a middle ground in their disputes. Destiny highlighted that most of his arguments with Melina revolved around statements of fact, leaving little room for disagreement. Finally, he discussed the rules in their open relationship that, in his view, were designed to set him up for failure, and he mentioned Melina’s request for $100,000 for her apartment in Sweden.

Timeline of events

Memetix logs during the December 19th stream
  • 2:21 October 20, 2023 Destiny and Melina get into a fight(while in Las Vegas) because Tim(memetix) was saying you can't raise children in a poly relationship, or with an American. The fight heats up, and she asks him if he's on his meds and implies that could be the cause of his poor mood.
  • 16:33 December 7, 2023 Destiny and Melina have a conversation which ended horribly. Destiny wanted her to be gone with all her shit by the the time he got home on December 9th. Later that night, Destiny had a short conversation with her in dms(Destiny admits he is fairly irate at this point, and the messages he sent could be perceived as "unhinged"). Melina's responses were described as loving yet cold and detached, and fairly logical. Destiny noted that she was denying things she had previously confessed to doing. Unable to sleep, Destiny started typing things about their relationship in the DGG chat that he later regretted. Destiny has a 15-page manifesto ready to go at this point. That day, Destiny appears as a guest on two shows, Jubilee and the Whatever podcast. Destiny and Melina are seperated for two days at this point, and he has solicited much feedback from many mutuals regarding their interaction. After these conversations, Destiny sends an apologetic message to Melina for his seemingly unhinged behavior, and messages in DGG chat(Destiny was blocked on all socials at this point so he sent it through a mutual).
  • 19:06 December 8, 2023 On the day of their therapy session, Destiny withdrew his money from their joint bank account, believing that the discussion would not be fruitful and "seeing the writing on the wall". Afterward, Destiny had a three-hour discussion with his therapist, Stacy, about their relationship and his struggles to understand some of Melina's behaviors. Stacy advised Destiny to focus on achieving a specific outcome, warning against actions that could lead to a less desirable result. Following the therapy, he managed to get Melina to sign a postnuptial agreement. Later that day, Destiny spent two hours talking with a friend about the situation.
  • 20:08 December 11, 2023 Destiny does the "cuck" stream, wherein he apologizes for his unhinged behavior, leaking details regarding his relationship in dgg, and leaves the door open for Melina's return.[8]
  • 20:32 December 12, 2023 Destiny notices a few passive aggressive tweets from Melina(which he viewed through dummy social media accounts). Destiny has his birthday party and notably did not receive a happy birthday form Melina :( . Destiny claims he is "chilling" at this point, and is happy where things are left.
  • 21:41 December 13, 2023 people start messaging Destiny about things Melina has been saying. Most of the mutual friends allegedly believe Melina, despite her tendency to not divulge the full story of any fight they may have.[9] Destiny believes Melina will never leak anything, because she knows everything about this makes her look like a "satanic demon"[10]. Notable messages include "I'm so glad I got out of that, I never want to go back to this horrible person, I realized how much of an abuser he is... I can't believe he lied and tried to make everybody sympathetic for him...". Destiny is taken aback by these messages, as they were in response to his "cuck-stream". Destiny begins to retrofit actions melina did in the past, and everything starts to make sense. Destiny says fuck everyone who made him walk back his initial assessment of things. Upon seeing the aforementioned messages from Melina regarding their relationship, Destiny rents an attorney, got the divorce papers, printed them up, sent them to melina to sign by monday. The papers were signed, notarized, and the court accepted everything.
  • 24:31 December 19, 2023 Melina reaches out to Destiny for the first time in twelve days(through a mutual). She states Destiny owes her money for her apartment in Sweden. Destiny suggest that Memtix get a job to pay off the amount due. The two have a forty minute call later that day, which begins with Melina asking Destiny "I just want to know where you're at"(with regards to the apartment). During their conversation, Destiny compared himself to Neo, claiming he could detect each lie and pivot Melina made in real time. He challenged every assertion Melina presented, consistently asking for logs or evidence to back her claims, which she was unable to provide. Melina notably calls Destiny an emotionally stunted child that surrounds himself with yes-men during the call.

Financial fallout of divorce

Destiny stated that there is no noticeable financial burden on his end as a result of the divorce. He goes on to say that the two have no joint assets, no kids, and live in Florida(the state has disfavorable laws for short-term marriages), and even if she wanted to fight she would likely receive nothing.[11]

Memetix chat logs during the stream

Memetix appeared in chat while Destiny was recounting the events of his divorce and attempted multiple times to egg Destiny on. Notably, upon Memetix's allegation that he has a recording of Destiny requesting he kill himself, Destiny remarks he did say as much and requests that Memetix be a "man of his word"(in reference to Memetix threatening to take his own life on multiple occasions).[12]

Darius Situation

  • 7:09 Destiny remarks that Melina was 100% unequivocally wrong, and exaggerated/lied about everything having to do with the situation. Because it ended up in a place she didn't like, she emotionally rewrote their interactions to make it seem like DariusIRL was a clingy abusive loser the entire time.
  • 11:27 Destiny didn't want to intervene in their personal drama which is why he let Darius get "dragged", he did talk to the two behind the scenes individually.

Melina's request for $100,000

Melina reached out(through a mutual) to Destiny twelve days after blocking him on all platforms. She asserts Destiny owes her money for her apartment in Sweden, and if he wants to do what is morally right he should pay for her apartment in Sweden. Destiny responds that Melina is out of her mind, and suggests that Memetix get a job to pay off the amount due. Some time passes, and Melina wants to know where Destiny is at with regards to the apartment situation. Destiny states he's at the message he sent an hour ago, they have a 40 minute call. Melina starts lying throughout the convo, and destiny has logs on hand to disprove her(Destiny claims he felt like neo during this conversation).

Memetix streamed some time later, and said there was lies in the logs Destiny had released.[13] Melina argued that Destiny lied about paying rent for her other boyfriend who moved into her Swedish apartment without Destiny's knowledge. Destiny admitted that, technically, he had not paid for her apartment. However, he explained that by covering all of Melina's living expenses while she lives in America, it's akin to indirectly funding her ability to pay for her Swedish apartment. This arrangement allows Melina to use her own money for the apartment in Sweden, which she has owned since before their relationship began. Therefore, Destiny's support in the US essentially enabled Melina to maintain her Swedish apartment.

As justification for the amount she requested from Destiny, Melina asserts that she abandoned all her things in Sweden for him. [14]

Melina:  "You owe me this because I abandoned all of my stuff in sweden for you." 
Destiny: "No you didn't, you abandoned new zealand for me." 
Melina:  "No i abandoned sweden, I couldn't go back after I..."
Destiny: "No you hated sweden, and you abandoned new zealand."

Destiny then pulls up logs from the first year of their relationship wherein the couple fought over Melina's desire to stay in New Zealand, her hating Sweden, and her hating having to come to the United States. When the two fought, Melina would frequently bring up how Destiny seemingly pulled her from her dream country and dropped her in a country she hates(Sweden), to which Destiny responded that she was engaged with a guy two weeks after she arrived in New Zealand.

Cheating and Bob7

  • 10:11 Destiny maintains his position that Bob was a piece of shit, who was talking shit behind the scenes. There are multiple people people that Melina dumped everything about their relationship to, these people have all eventually gone on to hate destiny. The justification for this "trauma-dumping" was always: "5 years of trauma, and because you traumatize me when you cheated." Destiny admits he did in fact cheat, but some of the rules were set up to make him fail, as there were many qualifiers with regards to girls he could hook-up with.
  • 42:43 Destiny asserted that Melina has caused more people to be cut out of his life by bringing their relationship drama to these individuals. He asked her if she thought she was in the wrong in some of those instances, to which she replied no. The day after, Memetix continued with what Destiny described as manipulative, abuser-like behavior, and Melina suggested that Destiny should talk to him. This led to two days of intense conversations with Memetix, which Destiny characterized as "autistic." He then questioned why Melina hadn't had conversations with any of the people with whom her actions had damaged his friendships, particularly those who hadn't threatened self-harm, citing ErisAnn as an example.
  • 1:06:25 Destiny provided an example of what Melina accused him of as "cheating": He had hooked up with a girl in San Francisco and informed Melina about it the following morning. He contrasted this with an incident involving Melina, who, while traveling through Europe with two guys, did not disclose her activities to Destiny unless he specifically inquired. Additionally, he recounted a separate occasion where Melina had asked him not to hook up with a particular girl. Destiny agreed to her request, but later that day, Melina called him, crying, and admitted that she herself had hooked up with two guys.

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